The kind hearted person is the glue of society for they seek bonds and make effort to maintain them. When we nurture them and support them the entire community rises and they do too. Kind hearted people are good at having a sense of "we" and seeing how helping others at the right moments can create positive ripples into the future and increase wellness. They seek to make the "stitches in time that save nine."
Kind hearted people can break. Kind hearted people go into emotional debt to give to others when they should be taking care of themselves. Often times they are the unhealed victims of trauma, they suffer emotional flooding and an inability to see their own worth. They are a blessing, the are wonderful, yet they are rarely aware of their own fragility or needs.
The kind hearted person feels good when they give and so they keep on giving. Yet even an ocean needs rain and rivers to give back to it, and, as endless as their love appears, as much as they appear to benefit from giving, they need managing by those who love them. They need to be taught self care. As givers they need to receive as well as to give. This is challenging for them because their concept of "I" is underdeveloped and engulfed by their concept of "we."
He was a kind hearted person, the kind you worry about. There is a personality in this world that learned that their role was to give to others and be generous at all times. It makes them wonderful and a blessing to all who are in their life, yet it is dangerous too. They are as a motor running constantly, hardly ever taking the time they need for maintenance and refuelling. As such they are prone to breakdowns after a time. The kind hearted person needs their own kindness reflected back to them. The care they give others must come back to them as care. Love them the right way or lose them, that's the way it is, for they can rarely take care of themselves.
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