What matters in building family is that the foundations of everything is love. If you need a surrogate mother, love her. Your child will need to love her too. She is an essential part of their foundation, their origin. If you need an egg donor or a sperm donor, love them, you are becoming family. I realise that in a money-nexus world these things are done more at-distance, in many senses. Yet, in a love-nexus there is no money, it is all about love, and this is where the healing is. A child can have three parents, four parents or more... the more the merrier! Kids need love. That's their stability. In older cultures there was four or more adults per child to raise them. So, whether we solve infertility via birthing solutions or adoptions, love is the answer.
Hetero and homo couples often look toward adoption and, my God, there are so many children who need their love. Infertility may be your curse, yet when your big heart reaches toward them, it is their blessing.
Some of the greatest mothers I ever met had adopted their children. One had infertility, the other chose the adoptive route for five brothers that needed a family.
Infertility is rough. Yet, in you, I see a great future parent. There are so many kids that need a home, a real home that loves them. And, more than that, they need real family, a mother, a father, uncles, aunts, brothers, sisters... whomever comes. As every blessing is a curse, the reverse is true too. I hope you find your way to great happiness. I hope you make some kid's dreams come true.
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