voyeurism - quotes and descriptions to inspire creative writing

Voyeurism comes of some sense of insecurity, or so my mother said. People who feel good about themselves are content to live their lives in better ways. She said pity them, but be creeped out all the same. It is so very wrong to spy on others. Give people their privacy and keep your own. Otherwise how can we have real intimacy and a sense of control, a sense of safety and protection? She's right, I think. It is a sad way to live, yet porn is the same thing, right? They realise they are being watched but it is still voyeurism of a sort.