Princesses are angel warriors, and they learn through pain and struggle as any other soldier of the realm does. What makes them a princess though, is not their birth, not whom they were born to, yet the quality of their heroes heart. For only then can they access the divine soul-ether and bring forth the kind of magic that keeps all of creation safe. To us, a princess is another word for angel or good-witch. So, we respect them. They earned it.
The princesses spend most of their days in gruelling training for whatever their passion-driven specialism is. So, upon the days of the ballroom dance, when they adorn such pretty dresses and dance, they earned their revelry.
If you could do what the princesses can do, then girl, you'd be royalty too. The sign up sheet is pinned to your heart. Add you name if you want. The soul-ether will be in touch. We need recruits but it's my duty to tell you that it's very challenging, the drop out rate is high and if you sustain injuries you can't overcome, you may be worse off than if you'd kept yourself off the list. The princes have their own battles. They will fight alongside you, defend and be chivalrous when needed, but you should be battle ready and capable, an asset to them in the fight. So... we will mentor you... stand by you... show you the way... the rest is up to you. If you ever want to stop, or leave, that's okay. We get it. We love you for trying. Crowning is painful.
Beyond the pageantry and ceremony, beyond the garments of grandeur, the princesses learn how to become warrior queens. They are expected to ride into battle, to defend the citadel even at cost to their own life. So, choose your path with wisdom, there is a reason that most in society settle for a more quiet existence. Royalty comes with a hefty price tag and, when that bill comes due, you will pay it with gratitude for your life, dearest Galadriel.