If you can tell me what I did wrong respectfully there is a chance that I will either change or explain to you how, from my perspective, it was the right course of action. Insults trigger primitive reactions instead of intelligent responses. I wait your more intelligent, empathic and creative communication.
Insulting me is like trying to own a luxury car with pocket change. My guard won't let you near. Take five. Calm yourself. See if you can act with manners. How can I be of assistance?
"Is it beyond you to give me a compliment, because these insults lessen us both."
Insults are the work of an immature mind.