Is a fish a flawed gazelle? Is a beetle a flawed dolphin? Ridiculous! Each is specialised for a task, for a position in creation, in the ecosystem. Human society is an ecosystem of abilities, of passions, of specialisms. Your differences are there for good reason. Nature loves variation! So, when you follow your passion, when you are guided by love as your supreme first principle, you naturally find your place in our world. You will discover how much you are needed and valued.
What others perceive as your flaws can be your "floor," the clues to your passion and the reason for your birth.
How can another say what a flaw is? For perhaps it is an ability that has not yet been properly directed to serve the purpose of love and society? We all specialise in unique ways, developing our individual talents to bring to our family, friends, community and globe.
Nature finds opportunity in variation, these are not "flaws," they are chances to become great.