If I love you the right way, this crush won't crush me, yet in its pain teach me what love is and what it is not.
Around you, people feel safe, that's the kind of good person you are. I'm sure there are a lot of people who have a crush on you. I'm one of them. I can live my life. I can move on with my interests and passions and be well. But I'd rather do all that and be with you. So, if you feel the same way, if any of this resonates with you. Call me.
You crushed the doubt from my head. I saw it. I saw a hand made from light, gold and green, reach in and I felt it be crushed into nothing. After that, my emotions were at peace. Then I fell asleep and dreamed as if I was within a bubble that was your love. That's quite a powerful crush you have there. I feel the same about you.
I guess we call it a crush because it can feel so crushing when we see the response of the other, or imagined responses, as reflections on our deepest and most vulnerable self. In truth, that kind of crushing is self inflicted, as tough as that is to accept. Chances are, you have a crush on the other person because they have been kind to you, because they offered you hope and a sense of warmth. Sometimes we are simply starving for any sweetness at all, and so we cling to any emotional sugar source we find. The best thing you can do is offer sweetness in return, repay kindness with kindness. If they fall in love with you too, then you have the start of a real relationship, real love. If not, then you can be proud of how you handled yourself and realise that the person you have a crush on is still your friend, still a person who cares about you. So, let it not feel as a "crush" but a "tight hug," a sense of reaffirmation from another soul.
This crush I have on you, without you doing anything other than being kind, it lifted me up. I gained my own self confidence because you thought I was worth talking to, worth being a friend to. So, whatever happens, you were adorable and the time I spent loving you so obsessively, was worth it.
My crush on you is akin to a crushed velvet, soft and reflective of the light. I pray that this love I have for you lifts you to higher heights, that you find more happiness because I cherish you so. Let it be an updraft beneath your wings. And wherever you go, whatever you do, with me or not, I'll be content that I did something good for you, that I was good for you.
I'm not saying this crush doesn't hurt, I'm saying that the hurting is worth the good I'm able do for you because of it. If we won't sacrifice for love, it ain't love, right? That's the way it is.
Girl, I realise you have a crush on him, and that's okay. He is your first thought of the day, your every daydream and every fantasy of future years. But, girl, you must separate these fantasies from reality if you are to have any chance together. He is but a man, great though that is. He has not had these fantasies, you did not build that dream together. So let it go. Should you begin a real romance it is a new thing, a new book with clean pages. That book is one you would write together. If you start as if your story were in any way written the weight of those expectations will crush both your hearts. So maybe he is the one, maybe you and he move on from one another, but please, dear girl, remember he has his own thoughts, needs and heart... else nought good can come.
There is something in the way you laugh that reminds me of my better self. There is something pure in the way you struggle to do what is right, it's an honesty, right? You have the kind of creative brain that brings such magic and interest to life, one that enjoys the sparking of ideas. So, my friend, I have a crush on you. One that could last as such gentle admiration does.